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title: "THE STATE OF AFFAIRS"
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# THE STATE OF AFFAIRS

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***NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER*** Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Why do people cheat? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic; because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected - an expression of longing and loss. A must-read for anyone who has ever cheated or been cheated on, or who simply wants a new framework for understanding relationships. 'Esther Perel does nothing short of strip us of our deepest biases, remind us of our purpose in connecting as lovers, and save relationships that might otherwise sink into the sea-all with even-handed wisdom, fresh morality, and wise prose. Thank heavens for this woman.' - Lena Dunham 'Beautiful. A brilliantly intelligent plea for complexity, understanding, and - as always - kindness.' - Alain de Botton 'She's the guru on relationships... she's the first person I ask for advice' - Cara Delevingne 'Wisest sex therapist we ever did meet. Her new book, THE STATE OF AFFAIRS , proposes a new perspective on infidelity' - GRAZIA 'This is a must-have for all married couples and has completely changed my thinking.' - SUNDAY TIMES STYLE

Review: Wonderful book - If you have heard Esther Perel’s talks then probably one can skip buying this book if you haven’t then it’s worth buying to understand many things about relationships
Review: Insightful - Good book. Gives a more open perspective on what infidelity truly is in all it's forms. Though I don't agree with all the points in the book but nevertheless it's a great guide on picking tips on how to keep your relationship thriving in the long term.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
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| Best Sellers Rank | #8,299 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #165 in Family & Relationships #733 in Self-Help #824 in Personal Transformation |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 5,549 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Wonderful book
*by S***D on 23 November 2024*

If you have heard Esther Perel’s talks then probably one can skip buying this book if you haven’t then it’s worth buying to understand many things about relationships

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Insightful
*by P***. on 29 January 2022*

Good book. Gives a more open perspective on what infidelity truly is in all it's forms. Though I don't agree with all the points in the book but nevertheless it's a great guide on picking tips on how to keep your relationship thriving in the long term.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Must read for all couples, it’s a window into every relationship
*by E***A on 1 May 2022*

This is the most insightful book, ever, about affairs and how we can heal from them. It offers excellent strategies but it also offers much needed explanations of the human psyche.

## Frequently Bought Together

- THE STATE OF AFFAIRS
- After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

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