Why Men Behave like Apes in Relationships

I was widowed back in 2013. I haven't been part of the dating scene in 17 years. Needless to say much has changed but the basic laws of attraction have not. Because of the path our society has taken it can be confusing to one that is trying to relearn how to date. I found this book to be very informative. After being married for 15 years after reading this book I realized I had forgotten a lot. I know that this is a book that I will go back to time and time again. It can be used as a tool to guide you through the many obstacles and levels of dating and/or relationships. It was very well written in simple terms that anyone can understand. I commend the author for his tact and honesty and informative advice.

My niece recommended this book since she always had problem with men. She told me this book changed her view on men and made her a lot more succesfull. So I had to read it myself. She lended me the book, and I just bought it again because I need to own my own copy. I consider this book my 'encyclopedia' of male behaviour. I am in a relationship with a guy I really like. The problem is that I can feel he's less interested than before. It's as if he's slipping away. My first gut reaction was to have a talk with him. Needless to say that didn't work out very well. Although he told me everything was fine, I could feel it wasn't. Why men behave like apes in relationships has changed everything for me. I now understand why he does what he does and that makes me confident and takes the stress away. I don't seek his approval anymore, I know what he's thinking. Some of the examples in the book were about me...really. I could see my own mistakes and I've stopped them right away. We had a fun night out yesterday and it was as if we were out on a first date again. He was flirting with me and gave me attention... the entire time. I loved it. I think every woman who ever thought: "why does he do that?" needs to read this book.

A good read with great reminders. This book helps women to remember the importance of being picked by a man and allowing him to pursue a natural desire to chase.

This is true . Thank you author for this book . He is right , because of stupid modern women s behavior we got men who scary or worse ! Lazy to make first step . Most of what author said I knew before . Nobody told me or taught me I was born already knowing genetically this . I was born with I call Woman s Pride .Men always had to pursue me , I never wanted man who didn't wanted me . My problem was because of my nativity I let wrong guys to pick me , but I never stay with them for long time and never was dumped by no one man . Right now I am in happy marriage with a great man . We together 7 years and he still pursue me ... And he feels that can easy lose me if something will go wrong . He knows also that he free to go any time he wantsnobody will stop him .

If you’re going thru a lot of emotions and stress and confusion this book will guide you and help you understand everything that is happening. However it also explains that when you need a man - that is when they will be least interested in you. Sucks. Better off having friends and dating in the most casual manner possible bc when we need them, it makes them lose interest. And I’m not talking about “need money” or “need someone to open my jar, fix my car” etc. I’m talking about if you need love and are lonely, don’t go to a relationship. Bc they find neediness gross. Find friends and don’t be lonely going in to get romance

Don't judge a book by its cover applies perfectly to this book. Despite the name of the author being unknown (and aka it is used here), the advice given in this book is really useful and practical for women. It departs from an understanding of what women want and how to deal with those men that are good for them. It is not a book about playing games to get any man, but advice to get the sort of man that you are sure about, the guy about whose intentions and interest in you, won't have doubts. It helps you to modify you behaviour and also to understand the male mind. What I like about the book is that it is well written, that is thoughtful, and very gentle. Unlike other books written by men, there is no cockiness or picking lines. Worth the money and the reading.

I've read a lot of relationship self help books . This book is a gem of wisdom. It was very confronting and forced me to do some introspection. As I read the examples Brian gives I could see I was acting like `Rachel', the woman he uses in his examples. I made the same mistakes and actually started, created and increased the "fear of commitment" my boyfriend had. I used to lose myself in my relationships. I was losing my self-respect and wasn't even aware of that, let alone what I could do to fix it. I love how this book gave me a look inside of `his' mind, how he thinks, why he might be afraid to commit, what he finds attractive and what not etc. It gave me so many insights that I can already feel how my relationship is improving because of the specific tips I read about and tested in my own life. HE's even talking about moving in together, whereas a couple of weeks ago he wasn't sure he wanted to call me his girlfriend... What a change! Love this book!

I love this books because it makes sense. No matter how many times the role of the man and woman changes in society, we cannot change nature. The friend method does work great and it is a great tool to stay objective and outside your head. A "must read" book for every woman who feels lost in today' s dating world.

Hi, I have read many of this type of books on Kindle, this book resonated with me. The concepts were simple and the examples helpful since they helped me identify with each situation. I like a book that says men are not bad but that it is just their makeup and how us women deal with that is the root of our troubles! Thanks, I feel (yes-clearly a woman) very optimistic because I now have the tools to nurture our relationship, which I was on the way to ruining by my behavior.

Really enjoy reading this book. So inspirational. Definitely will use it as reference book in future. Now I feel more security know what happened in the past

This will help women be their best selves in the dating game. He reveals the laws of nature when it comes to attraction and I feel this generation needs to be reminded of it because we have forgotten that we function on primal animal instincts.This books is a gem

Das Buch habe ich bei Tik Tok gesehen, da es empfohlen wurde. Ich habe es bestellt und ich fand es super und habe es bereits meinen Freunden empfohlen. Bis Seite 80 ca. wird wirklich alles super und einfach erklärt und man hat so mehrmals den AHA Effekt und denkt sich "soooo wahr und das hab ich auch schon erlebt" ab Seite 80 wiederholt sich der Autor und man kann auf die restlichen 30-40 Seiten verzichten. Aber nichts desto trotz, bin ich froh es bestellt zu haben.

Bought as a gift for my cousin and she loved it, made her laugh a lot. I’ve read it a few times, it’s a great book easy read and funny.