--- product_id: 103391348 title: "Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition" price: "Rp450271" currency: IDR in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.id/products/103391348-getting-the-love-you-want-a-guide-for-couples-third store_origin: ID region: Indonesia --- # Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition **Price:** Rp450271 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition - **How much does it cost?** Rp450271 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.id](https://www.desertcart.id/products/103391348-getting-the-love-you-want-a-guide-for-couples-third) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description New York Times bestseller with over 4 million copies sold, now fully revised with new insights and lasting wisdom for couples "This soulful and practical handbook helped us build a foundational template for our marriage." ―Grammy award-winning singer and songwriter Alanis Morissette & rapper Souleye "Take in these time-tested practical steps to love and enjoy the freedom and closeness you deserve." ― Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., Mindsight Institute and New York Times bestselling author Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying relationships and is recommended every day by professional therapists and happy couples around the world. Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt explain how to revive romance and remove negativity from daily interactions, to help you: · Discover why you chose your mate · Resolve the power struggle that prevents greater intimacy · Learn to listen - really listen - to your partner · Increase fun and laughter in your relationship · Begin healing early childhood experiences by stretching into new behaviors · Become passionate friends with your partner · Achieve a common vision of your dream relationship Become the most connected couple you know with this revolutionary guide, combining behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to help you and your partner recapture joy, enhance closeness, and experience the reward of a deeply fulfilling relationship. Review: A must read book for EVERY couple - Life’s hard these days, and it takes a toll both individually and especially on relationships. Throw kids into the mix and it gets even harder on steroids. My wife and I are pretty empathetic and forgiving people, but even we found ourselves struggling with the demands of everyday life. We finally decided to try couples therapy, and our therapist recommended this book. I’m not a huge fan of books like this because I usually find them to be high minded, overly theoretical, and lacking in effective tools and practical solutions. This book is none of these. It is very approachable and written in an easily-digestible and conversational style, but most importantly the information is extremely insightful and helpful in understanding ourselves and how this affects and plays out in our relationships. And it provides very doable and effective tools and techniques that can be enacted easily and that yield fast and significant results. The first few chapters alone have improved our relationship 10 fold as we now better understand where each other is coming from AND WHY, along with how this impacts our communication, behaviors, and feelings. And the tools are there to help us incorporate positive strategies into our daily lives to help keep us on course going forward instead of just lapsing back into our old ways over time, which is the downfall of many other books like this. I wish we had read this book before we got married as it would’ve helped to avoid lots of needless and hurtful arguments and bad feelings that lead to unproductive and harmful walls that just get harder and harder to break down over time. Frankly, I think this book should be required reading for every couple as it would help prevent so much unnecessary pain and suffering, and probably divorce as well. I’m a guy and hate talking about feelings, emotions, etc., but even I have enjoyed reading this book and certainly the happiness and joy that has returned to our lives. Life’s too short to deal with the stress and negativity of a struggling and strained relationship, so get this book and put your relationship on a happy, healthy course. It’s really life changing with relatively little effort. Review: Best book ever - Amazing book about why Dawn is my actual soulmate. Now, if it's not too late to get her back in my life. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #7,724 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #28 in Marriage #32 in Love & Romance (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 2,811 Reviews | ## Images ![Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81lKBcoHBYL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must read book for EVERY couple *by T***S on June 17, 2020* Life’s hard these days, and it takes a toll both individually and especially on relationships. Throw kids into the mix and it gets even harder on steroids. My wife and I are pretty empathetic and forgiving people, but even we found ourselves struggling with the demands of everyday life. We finally decided to try couples therapy, and our therapist recommended this book. I’m not a huge fan of books like this because I usually find them to be high minded, overly theoretical, and lacking in effective tools and practical solutions. This book is none of these. It is very approachable and written in an easily-digestible and conversational style, but most importantly the information is extremely insightful and helpful in understanding ourselves and how this affects and plays out in our relationships. And it provides very doable and effective tools and techniques that can be enacted easily and that yield fast and significant results. The first few chapters alone have improved our relationship 10 fold as we now better understand where each other is coming from AND WHY, along with how this impacts our communication, behaviors, and feelings. And the tools are there to help us incorporate positive strategies into our daily lives to help keep us on course going forward instead of just lapsing back into our old ways over time, which is the downfall of many other books like this. I wish we had read this book before we got married as it would’ve helped to avoid lots of needless and hurtful arguments and bad feelings that lead to unproductive and harmful walls that just get harder and harder to break down over time. Frankly, I think this book should be required reading for every couple as it would help prevent so much unnecessary pain and suffering, and probably divorce as well. I’m a guy and hate talking about feelings, emotions, etc., but even I have enjoyed reading this book and certainly the happiness and joy that has returned to our lives. Life’s too short to deal with the stress and negativity of a struggling and strained relationship, so get this book and put your relationship on a happy, healthy course. It’s really life changing with relatively little effort. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Best book ever *by R***A on April 23, 2026* Amazing book about why Dawn is my actual soulmate. Now, if it's not too late to get her back in my life. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Worth the investment and time to read *by B***E on January 14, 2026* Great book. Helpful explaining and things to implement to make your life better. ## Frequently Bought Together - Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition - Getting the Love You Want Workbook: The New Couples' Study Guide - The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.id/products/103391348-getting-the-love-you-want-a-guide-for-couples-third](https://www.desertcart.id/products/103391348-getting-the-love-you-want-a-guide-for-couples-third) --- *Product available on Desertcart Indonesia* *Store origin: ID* *Last updated: 2026-05-09*